There comes a time in everyone's life where I think it is fully acceptable to be one-hundred percent selfish- and I am going through that right....about...NOW!
I live with my boyfriend (yeah!) and a twenty-two-year-old (boo!). After living with family for the past year, my boyfriend and I were ready to leave, get our own space... and move in with someone else??? Not exactly, but that's where we are at now- f-ing super. At this point, I don't want to have children anymore because I feel like a mother already, and it's a pretty demanding job! Seriously, I want to advertise this way of life as the new birth control method: ask a young twenty-something to move in with you, it will delay any wanting of child producing for years to come!
I am not sure if it is living with someone, or that I have somewhat become the third wheel in my own relationship- he (the super fun 22-year-old) is always around for every meal, hanging out with us, watching movies with us...that's all great if I wanted to have a threesome, BUT I DON'T! I need space; I need the apartment to be quiet when I study, I need people to actually clean up, I need to have more of my apartment beyond my bedroom, and I need my relationship back to 2 people, not 3...is that too much to ask? I really do not think so...
Seriously, never, never again...